Since 1789, America has had 46 presidents. All of them have been men. And all but one of them have been white. 

In 1984, Geraldine Ferraro was the first woman to be named a vice-presidential candidate for a major party. She came under severe attack because she and her husband filed their taxes separately, and her husband refused to make his tax returns public. Since then, Republican Sarah Palin ran for vice president in 2008, and Kamala Harris was the Democratic nominee for vice president in 2020.

In 1964, Margaret Chase Smith ran for the Republican nomination for president. She was the first woman whose name was placed in nomination for president at a major political party convention. In 1972, Shirley Chisholm was the first Black candidate to run for the Democratic presidential nomination and the first woman to run for her major party’s nomination. Hillary Clinton became the first woman to receive the Democratic nomination for President in 2016. And Kamala Harris was the first woman of color to receive the Democratic nomination in 2024. 

Nancy Pelosi was the first woman elected as U.S. Speaker of the House and led the House from 2007 to 2011 and again from 2019 to 2023.

Of the 115 Justices who have served on the Supreme Court, six have been women. Four of these women are currently serving. 

Among the 193 United Nations member states, at least 80 countries have had a female head of state or government. Currently, only 13 of the body’s 193 members are led by women. The Council on Foreign Relations ranked the U.S. Number 69 in its rankings of which countries have “progressed toward gender parity in political participation.” 

Researchers claim that when polled, Americans say they would vote for a woman, “just not that woman.” Currently women make up about a third of Congress and there are 12 women governors.

According to the most recent World Values Survey, 15 percent of American respondents agreed that “men make better political leaders than women do.” Political scientists claim that women candidates often have to be more qualified than men to win elections. 

Americans don’t seem to have significant problems with voting for women in lower-level positions than president—congresswoman, governors, etc. But the leadership traits Americans see as most important in a President are decisiveness and toughness—traits more difficult for women to demonstrate. On the other hand, voters tend to rank women as more trustworthy, less corrupt, more compassionate, and better on issues such as healthcare, education, and childcare.

Women who have led other countries have been judged more harshly than their male counterparts. They tend to face higher standards and enjoy shorter honeymoon periods.

Surveys have also shown that the public is not ready for an all-female ticket but obviously has no problem with an all-male ticket. 

J.D. Vance authored a book, was a lackluster hedge fund manager, and had served only two years in the Senate when Trump tapped him as his Vice President (making Bush’s VP pick Dan Quayle look like an elder statesman). 

Now let’s take a quick look at how Trump and the men he will surround himself in his next administration feel about women. 

We have heard ad nauseum the rude, crude comments Trump has made about countless women. Since the 1970’s, at least 26 women have accused Trump of sexual assault or sexual harassment. In 2023, Trump was found liable for sexual abuse and defamation against E. Jean Carroll. 

Trump’s VP-Elect J. D. Vance talks about “childless cat ladies and claims the sole purpose of post-menopausal woman is to help care for youngsters.”

Matt Gaetz, Trump’s nomination for Attorney General, has been accused of sex trafficking, using illegal drugs, and showing lewd photos of women on the House Floor. It is yet to be determined whether the findings of the House Ethics Committee’s report on Gaetz, that had been scheduled to be released last Friday, will be released.

Efficiency expert Elon Musk, the father of 12 offspring, freely offers his sperm to women in his employ. He apparently also suggested to Nicole Shanahan, RFK’s Jr. ‘s former running mate, that she could have access to his valuable sperm. 

RFK Jr., an anti-vax conspiracy theorist and heroin addict for 14 years who has claimed that a worm ate part of his brain, once was alleged to have a list on his cellphone of 43 mistresses. His promiscuity was frequently linked, in part, to his former wife’s suicide. Mary Kennedy also suffered from drug and alcohol addictions.

Pete Hegseth, Trump’s nomination for Defense Secretary, said that women should not be in combat roles because men are more capable. (Currently about 220,000 combat roles are open to women in the military. Women who obtain those roles are subject to the same grueling training that men are. Reports state that these women are competent and should they no longer be eligible for combat roles, the U.S. may be forced to reinstate the draft. The Department of Defense is the largest employer in the U.S. It has more than 1.3 million active-duty employees and more than 800,000 in reserves. Its budget is almost $900 billion. Hegseth has never had a management position of any size.) Hegseth also has been accused of sexual assault. 

Boatloads of serious competent women with deep technical expertise reside in the U.S. It is distressful that the U.S. continues to pass over them for the top job. It’s also distressful that, with few exceptions, the women who Trump has tapped to work in his next administration have one quality in common—blind loyalty to Trump. Deep relevant expertise does not appear to be on the radar screen.

So, fasten your seatbelts competent women. We’re in for a bumpy ride.

Maria Grant was principal-in-charge of the federal human capital practice of an international consulting firm. While on the Eastern Shore, she focuses on writing, reading, music, and nature.

After last week’s election results were reported, I have had many tearful conversations with friends and relatives who have children. Here are some of the questions these women asked.

Almost every day I tell my children how important it is to be kind. How do I defend the winning candidate who relentlessly made vicious and unkind comments about his opponent and others?

My child’s biggest obsession is the state of our planet. How do I comfort her in her distress about a candidate who doesn’t acknowledge the existence of climate change and who has threatened to dismantle the Environmental Protection Agency? It’s the year 2024 which scientists have proclaimed to be the hottest recorded year in history.

I have two beautiful biracial children. How do I assuage their worried looks when they realize that the candidate who called his opponent–a woman of color–dumb as a rock, lazy as hell, retarded, low-IQ, and not that attractive?

I spend my days telling my young sons how important it is to treat women with respect and dignity. How do I explain that the candidate who won called women bitches, fat pigs, and ugly as sin. And what do I say when they ask if it is true that more than half the country is OK with that?

My daughter just went off to college in a state that doesn’t allow a woman to have control over her own body. What should I recommend when she asks if she should apply to other colleges in other states that still have that right?

In their school, my children have initiated drives to support the children of Ukraine. What should I tell them when they worry about what will happen to Ukraine’s children now that the President-Elect has threatened to cut much needed aid?

I have a disabled child. Many of the special needs programs which we rely on may now be cut. What options will my child have?

We have relatives in Europe who have asked my children, “What the hell happened?” My children say they are embarrassed to live in this country. How do I defend this democracy?

My daughter works for the State Department. She is a dedicated civil servant who works hard and is committed to the cause. She is worried about losing her job as are many of her friends. The President-Elect has threatened to cut hundreds of civil service jobs and replace heads of various agencies with supporters who have no federal experience. How can I reassure her that everything will be OK? 

I asked, “How did you respond to these questions?” Here’s what they said.

You continue to do the right thing. Treat others the way you want them to treat you. 

You are right to be concerned about the planet. Let’s do our part to reduce the effects of global warming. Remember that one oyster can filter 50 gallons of water in one day. Let’s become oyster gardeners which will improve the quality of water in Chesapeake Bay.

 Be Kind. Treat women with respect and dignity. You will love yourself. And others will love you for it.

 Let’s talk about whether you should transfer to another college in a state that has laws with which you are more comfortable. 

We will keep sending care packages to Ukraine’s children. Now they need them more than ever.

Let’s do more research on various programs that help children with special needs. Don’t give up hope. We are here for you. 

Every country has highs and lows. The next election is in two years. Traditionally that means a lot of change. Keep the faith. Almost every country on earth has succumbed to craziness at some time in its history. 

Continue to do your important work to the best of your ability. Start to think about possible alternatives should your job be eliminated. 

One friend said she went into her bedroom, shut the door, and cried again. Then she sighed, took some deep breaths, went back into the family room, and asked, “What should we have for dinner?” 

Maria Grant was principal-in-charge of the federal human capital practice of an international consulting firm. While on the Eastern Shore, she focuses on writing, reading, music, and nature.

 

  

The U.S. is anxious. No question about it. What will happen if Trump wins? If Harris wins, will there be another insurrection? How long will it be until we know the results of the election? Once we know the outcome, will we be able to handle the results? These are questions swirling around the minds of many Americans. 

So, what to do about these feelings of anxiety? Here are some helpful tips from the experts.

First, know that a certain amount of anxiety is normal. Accept it. Don’t avoid your anxious thoughts. Share them with a friend or family member who can help put things in perspective. 

Meditate for 15 minutes three or four times a day. Several different kinds of meditation techniques can be helpful. Apps, books, YouTube videos and more can help you begin the process.

Exercise for at least 30 minutes a day—walk, run, swim, cycle. Yoga and stretching are also helpful. Exercise can have the same effect as meditation and help clear your mind. 

Take a break from all the stimuli around you. Shut off the TV, radio, and cell phone for significant periods of time during the day. 

Pursue a creative outlet. Paint. Play the piano, guitar, or another instrument that interests you.

Take your mind off politics by playing mahjongg, chess, bridge, or other games with friends.

Keep a journal. Journaling can help you understand the issues of the day and work out possible solutions. 

Take 30 minutes to unwind before you go to sleep in the evening. Consider taking a warm bath. Warm milk is also a good idea. Drink organic decaffeinated teas. Listen to calming music or soothing sounds.

Do some kind of cathartic activity. Clean your closet, your garage, or office. In essence, do spring cleaning in the fall. 

Escape by reading a light novel or watching a comedic film.

Limit alcohol and caffeine. Both can heighten and intensify feelings of anxiety. 

Explore nature. Take a nature hike. Go to a botanical garden. Search for butterflies. Go birding. Pick wildflowers. Plan next season’s garden.

Kahlil Gibran once said, “Our anxiety does not come about thinking about the future, but from wanting to control it.” 

Many of us have done all we can this election season. We have canvassed, written postcards, donated money, written letters, and more. At this point, the outcome is out of our hands.

Let’s pray for a peaceful transition of power. Let’s renew our faith in America. And remember what Kierkegaard once wrote, “Anxiety is the dizziness of freedom.” 

Maria Grant was principal-in-charge of the federal human capital practice of an international consulting firm. While on the Eastern Shore, she focuses on writing, reading, music, and nature.

I must admit that I find myself depressed about the state of our union. When I lived in DC, I was tapped into the political scene in both Republican and Democratic administrations and often had robust and interesting discussions with friends and colleagues about politics. Sometimes discussions were quite spirited, but they were also open, interesting, and chock full of factual information. I benefited from hearing different points of view, and I understood why some friends voted for Reagan, or Bush, or Romney. 

But this time it’s different. 

My depression stems from the fact that so many Americans seem to have no regard for a person’s character—qualities that include respect, kindness, and humility. Today many Americans are OK with a candidate who says mean and degrading things about opponents, women, disabled people, veterans, and immigrants. 

Crude and mean-spirited comments? No problem. Downright lies? Keep them coming. 

The recent rude and cruel name-calling has opened up a pandora’s box of vitriol, which, as my mom used to say, is singularly unattractive. 

Americans used to care about good vs evil, truth-telling vs false witness, 

When the historian Richard White writes about the Gilded Age, he explains that judgments of character had less to do with honesty and integrity and more to do with getting things done while exhibiting strength. Many studies show that in today’s world Americans tend to put character aside and vote for candidates who can promote their economic and social well-being. 

I have seen evidence of this theory. Some of my acquaintances care only about one thing—lower taxes. Many of these same people own more than one house and are quite well off financially. They have chosen to put their own personal pocketbooks ahead of every other issue—the environment, healthcare, education, gun control and, of course, character. 

So perhaps what is happening in today’s world is people are prioritizing one issue. For some, it’s taxes. For others, it’s right to life. For others, it’s exactly the opposite—a woman’s right to choose. And for still others, it’s immigration and so on. 

It is easy to see why people get disillusioned about politics. 

The Stoics claimed that character consisted of four core virtues:  Wisdom—the ability to make sound choices; justice—the ability to determine what is fair; courage—the ability to “do the right thing” even when there is personal risk; and temperance—the ability to control emotions and impulses and exhibit self-control. 

I say the Stoics got it right. It makes sense to examine all aspects of a candidate’s character. It is easy to become self-absorbed, and it is hard to be courageous. Just ask the many subscribers to The Washington Post who have canceled their subscriptions just hours after the paper declared that it would not endorse a candidate this year or in subsequent years. Bezos made that decision because he has billions of dollars in government contracts with both Amazon and Blue Origin. He didn’t want to risk any backlash should Trump win the election. Self-absorbed and lacking courage?  My case rests. 

Eleanor Roosevelt once said, “Only a man’s character is the real criterion of worth.”  Let’s be sure to put character on the ballot when we consider the candidates who are worthy of our vote next Tuesday. 

Maria Grant was principal-in-charge of the federal human capital practice of an international consulting firm. While on the Eastern Shore, she focuses on writing, reading, music, and nature.

By now, we are very familiar with Donald Trump’s mantra, “Make America Great Again.” Trump supports that mantra with his “America First” and “Buy American” agenda. My mom used to always tell me to practice what you preach. And judge people not by what they say but what they do. Let’s take a closer look at exactly what Trump preaches and what he does to support his mantra and agenda.

Currently Trump markets an abundance of products. These products include hats, towels, teddy bears, flags, dog collars, cups, mugs, t-shirts, flip-flops, beach balls, bobbleheads, trading cards, sneakers, and so much more. A huge percentage of that merchandise is made in China. A recent YouTube video shows a guy wandering through the store in Trump Tower trying to find merchandise made in the U.S. He found some items that were not made in China. Instead, they were made in Bangladesh, Haiti, Lesotho, Canada, Italy, and Scotland.

After the first assassination attempt, Trump had factories in Taiwan pumping out commemorative t-shirts showing him bleeding and fist pumping while being carried away by the Secret Service. 

Of late, Trump’s merchandise hawking has heated up. We’re talking commemorative coins (they sell for $100 and contain $30 worth of silver), God Bless the USA and Make America Pray Again bibles, and training sneakers. Last week, Trump announced he is selling Fighter watches retailing at $499 or $799, depending on the style. Another status watch in his collection retails at $100,000. Many members of the “status watch community” claim that these watches are “patently unoriginal and vastly overpriced.” Experts also say these watches “scream Chinese-made.” 

In addition, Trump buys many of his own suits, ties, and dress shirts from China. Much of the furniture in Trump establishments—cabinets, tables, desks, etc.—is made in China. 

Before Ivanka Trump shut down her fashion line, more than 800 items, including dresses, purses, and scarves in that line, were manufactured in China. 

In campaign speeches across the country, Trump claims he will impose a 60 percent tariff on goods from China and an up to 20 percent tariff on everything else the U.S. imports. To punish John Deere for its plans to move some production to Mexico, Trump promises to tax anything Deere tries to export back to the U.S. at 200 percent. He also has suggested hitting the Mexican made goods brought back to the U.S. with a 100 percent tariff which would negate his own administration’s deal with Mexico and Canada. For whatever reason, Trump seems to have it in for Mexico. 

Trump claims that foreign countries will suffer from these tariffs. Most economists beg to differ. They are not high on the tariff strategy. Economists claim that tariff retaliations from other countries will hurt the U.S. economy and cause inflation. Basically, they say that companies pass on the higher costs to their customers, so consumers usually end up paying more for goods. 

So, where does this all lead? Why any American buys into Trump’s whole tariff Ponzi scheme escapes me—especially when espoused by a guy who reliably turns to China for his next Trump-branded product in his never-ending quest for get-rich-quick schemes. 

And, on another note, let’s just confront the gargantuan, almost obscene, sums of money both parties are spending on their campaigns this year. So far, the Harris campaign has spent $743 million, and the Trump campaign has spent $426 million. And do not get me started on the spending in the state and local campaigns. The situation is beyond out of control. It is past time to institute sane campaign financing regulations. No other country on earth, even proportionally, spends anywhere close to what the U.S. spends on elections. 

In closing, here’s a quote by the author Hermann Hesse, “Even in him, even in your great teacher, I prefer the thing to the words, his actions and his life are more important than his speech, the gestures of his hand more important than his opinions.”  

Maria Grant was principal-in-charge of the federal human capital practice of an international consulting firm. While on the Eastern Shore, she focuses on writing, reading, piano, and nature.

 

Political campaigns offer the opportunity to study the power of rhetoric—techniques speakers use to inform, motivate, and persuade their audiences. It has been that way since ancient Greek and Roman times–times of Aristotle, Plato, and Cicero. Today both right- and left-wing rhetoric is heating up. That is worrisome.

Hateful rhetoric can cause listeners to feel powerless and lead to violence. Uplifting rhetoric can motivate people to action—to mobilize, campaign, vote. The jury is out whether Trump‘s campaign rhetoric extolling doom, gloom, and chaos if he is not elected vs. Harris’ campaign rhetoric of joy, turn the page, and hope will rule the day. 

Let’s take a look at the rhetoric of the four candidates. 

Here are some recent statements from Republican VP Candidate J.D. Vance.

“The big difference between conservatives and liberals is that no one has tried to kill Kamala Harris in the last couple of months, and two people now have tried to kill Donald Trump in the last couple of months.” 

“We’ve never had a faker, more fraudulent person run for president of the United States, and we have to remind people of that every single day.” 

“With close to 500 patriots in the state of Michigan in this building right now and outside, I’d like to see an assassin try to come in this room.” 

Here are some recent comments from Democratic VP Candidate Tim Walz.

“This country needs two functioning political parties, at least. We don’t need one, a cult on the other side, we do not need that.” 

“In Minnesota, we respect our neighbors and the personal choices they make. And even if we wouldn’t make those same choices for ourselves, we’ve got a golden rule: mind your own damn business.” 

“Good leaders don’t spend all day insulting people and blaming people. Leaders do the work. I don’t know about you all, but I’m ready to turn the page on these guys. So go ahead, say it with me, “we’re not going back.” 

Here are some comments by Republican Presidential Candidate Donald J. Trump

“She’s a Marxist, communist, fascist, socialist.”

If I don’t win this election—and Jewish people will have a lot to do with that–, 60 percent are voting for the enemy—Israel will cease to exist in two years.”

“Their rhetoric is causing me to be shot at, when I am the one who is going to save the country, and they are the ones that are destroying the country—both from the inside and out.”

“In Springfield, they’re eating the dogs, the people that came in, they’re eating the cats. They’re eating the pets of the people who live there.”

“They’re not after me, they’re after you. I’m just standing in the way.” 

“The Rhetoric, lies, as exemplified by the false statements made by Comrade Kamala Harris during the rigged and highly partisan ABC Debate and all of the ridiculous lawsuits specifically designed to inflict damage on Joe’s, then Kamala’s political opponent, ME has taken politics in our Country to a whole new level of hatred, abuse and distrust. Because of the Communist Left rhetoric, the bullets are flying, and it will only get worse.”

Here are some comments by Democratic Presidential Candidate Kamala Harris.

“My values have not changed.”

“I checked in to see if he was OK. And I told him what I have said publicly: there is no place for political violence in our country.”

“This business about taking everyone’s guns away—Tim Walz and I are both gun owners. We’re not taking anybody’s guns away, so stop with the continuous lying about this stuff.”  

“America let us show each other—and the world—who we are. And what we stand for. Freedom. Opportunity. Compassion. Dignity. Fairness. And endless possibilities.” 

Recent scholarly papers on rhetoric claim that political rhetoric is dangerous to democracy because rather than focusing on reason, it prioritizes emotion and passion. Inflamed rhetoric can incite fear, hatred, and discrimination. Violence can occur. Innocent lives can be lost. These scholars emphasize the need for relevant factual information and expert authority. In short, the need to value substance over style.

Politics is a strange, often disturbing business. Emotions run high. People in the heat of arguments stop talking to family members, co-workers, and friends. The election is 41 days away. American voters still have time to cast aside the emotional frenzied appeals of fear, hatred, and division and instead research the facts, do their homework, delve deep into the platforms and policies of each candidate, and make an informed choice on who should be the next president of the United States.

Perhaps Nelson Mandela said it best: “May your choices reflect your hopes, not your fears.”  

Maria Grant was principal-in-charge of the federal human capital practice of an international consulting firm. While on the Eastern Shore, she focuses on writing, reading, piano, kayaking, and nature.